to overfunction in love
oh-ver-fuhn(k)-shuhn | verb
- To be in a one-sided, unfulfilling relationship with an Underfunctioning Partner
- To feel confused, disappointed, exhausted, and resentful...but only with them
- To constantly wonder what else you can do to make them "get it" and grow up
You're exhausted
from doing it all.
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You want peace, but have endless chaos
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You want resolution, but get deflection and blame
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You want connection, but feel more alone than ever
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You want emotional safety, but tiptoe on eggshells
Their Underfunctioning nonsense has you drowning in confusion, guilt, and loneliness.
I got you!
Hi, I'm Dr. Ashley
I get what it's like to be an Overfunctioning Woman in Love, because I once was one, too. I spent two decades of my life over-explaining, over-focused on them, and over-accommodating their immature and selfish behavior...all in the hopes that eventually they would step up and finally be the partner I knew they could be.
Eventually, I burnt myself out. I developed a severe autoimmune disorder. And I felt like I was going crazy. I knew something had to change...and I knew it started with me. So I began the sacred journey back home to myself, what I now call Self-Restoration. Years later, I am happy, healthy, and at peace. And now I'm here to teach you how to do this ~ because you deserve to live in peace... regardless of what your partner does or doesn't do.
Become a Self-Restored Woman
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CLASSES
My On-Demand Masterclasses teach you, step-by-step, HOW to become the confident and self-respecting woman you were always meant to be!
Simply pick the class that's right for you, enroll, and start watching. Enjoy lifetime access!
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COMMUNITY
The Self-Restoration Community is a private, online, women-only space where Overfunctioning Women come together to do "the work" of healing.
This space is packed with meaningful conversations, resources, and direct contact with Dr. Ashley.
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CONSULTING
Later in 2025, Dr. Ashley will begin providing individual and small group consulting for Overfunctioning Women working on specific aspects of Self-Restoration.
Get on the email list to be notified when these spots open up.
So Grateful for the Opportunity to
Help Women Self-Restore 💕
Don't lose any more time wondering if you're crazy.
You're not...you're IN crazy.
And if you're not careful, you could spend many more years (decades?) trying to be a better communicator, working hard to need as little as possible, and hoping they'll change. Only to be in the same spot you're in now.
If you're ready to learn how to step back from Overfunctioning, effectively navigate their Underfunctioning nonsense, and become a Self-Restored Woman, then you are in the right spot!
Whether you want an On-Demand Masterclass, an Online Community of women who "get it," or 1:1 Consulting with me, I've got you covered.
I can't wait to support you on your journey to clarity, peace, and self-respect!
I'm so glad you're here.
In this little corner of the internet, your pain is seen and understood. Here, I will hold the lantern for you while you become the Self-Restored Woman you were always meant to be.
xoxo ~ Dr. Ashley 💞
